Recently, a friend asked me a question that I've been asked my many women over the years. She prefaced the question with something like:...

I have emphasized many times in these blog articles and constantly with my clients, just how critical HEALTHY BOUNDARIES are to porn...

Our Sexualized Culture Can Convince Us that "Sex" is Everything in a Marriage We live in a society that often shouts the message that...

Contrary to popular beliefs, our most difficult conversations can be the MOST CONNECTING if we can learn HOW to use some simple...

Porn addiction and Betrayal Trauma plunge a marriage into pain and chaos! After years of "negative relationship patterns," we get to a...

By Divine Design we are built to feel natural, healthy attraction for other human beings. In fact, there is more real estate in the brain...

What happens when you face a "Pornography Addiction Relapse"? The Fallout of Relapse— For the Porn Addict: Hopelessness, shame,...

There are two big concerns that often occupy the thoughts of married men who are in recovery from porn and sex addiction— Can I ever...

For your marriage relationship to not only survive but most importantly THRIVE, you must have healthy "boundaries"! This is certainly...

Porn addiction can devastate a marriage! Yet, there IS healing after porn! In this process, CONFLICT is a given and is NOT the enemy!

A husband addicted to porn will often go to great lengths to keep his use hidden from his wife, including using "gaslighting."

Most of us avoid conflict at ALL costs, but "collaborative conflict" is an essential part of real intimacy in marriage.

When there's betrayal trauma in marriage due to one spouse's porn addiction, setting "sexual boundaries" is critical to the healing process.

Betrayal Trauma has a massive impact on a woman’s sense of self-esteem and worth: Personal inadequacy (physical, emotional and sexual)—“I’ll

You are NOT going crazy! The roller coaster ride of emotions you're feeling is normal.

Many who struggle with porn use believe that once they're married the problem will naturally go away. This is nearly never the case! Why?

This is NOT a trial you asked for! No woman says "I do" expecting to deal with a situation of this magnitude. And it's NOT your fault!

There Are Three Primary Reasons... And They May Not Be What You Think . . .