If you're struggling to overcome addiction, but just keep falling back into it—can you do this and at the same time have a relationship...

Without realizing it, I carried a LOT of emotional baggage into my marriage! A bunch of traumatic experiences as a kid caused me to...

In Part One, we shared some raw experiences from our own marriages and the BIG mistakes we made! Now in Part Two, we dig even deeper and...

Just because we're therapists, doesn't mean we've always been desirable marriage partners! In our deep addiction years we made just about...

Those of us who have been free from Porn Addiction for many years have a LOT to share about what NOT to do!!! Hind sight is 20/20 and...

In this "real-life" story, Mark shares how a humble, open and very brave religious leader dared to share his past struggles with...

The Art of Surrender sounds good in theory, but HOW do you actually use this tool when powerful emotions are in your face?! When you're...

When things like addiction or betrayal trauma OR the Coronavirus make our world feel OUT OF CONTROL—the natural reaction is for us to...

Amidst all the "Corona-Chaos" a LOT of people around the world are filled with fear, doubt, panic and even hopelessness. But, those of us...

Anyone who's been trapped in porn addiction knows the confusion and frustration of the "big mystery"—"Why do I keep going back again and...

In every marriage relationship, there is some kind of trauma. We either bring it with us from childhood into the relationship and/or it...

LDS men trapped in porn suffer immense SHAME! Why is this true and HOW can they break free from porn addiction?

Porn addiction can devastate a marriage! Yet, there IS healing after porn! In this process, CONFLICT is a given and is NOT the enemy!

A husband addicted to porn will often go to great lengths to keep his use hidden from his wife, including using "gaslighting."

Willpower alone does NOT overcome porn addiction! This is true because porn use "rewires" the brain. It's not about "will"—it's "SKILL."

Porn addiction rewires the brain and a brain on porn doesn't want to be confused by the "facts." The facts are, is is NOT private!

Most of us avoid conflict at ALL costs, but "collaborative conflict" is an essential part of real intimacy in marriage.

When there's betrayal trauma in marriage due to one spouse's porn addiction, setting "sexual boundaries" is critical to the healing process.

Betrayal Trauma has a massive impact on a woman’s sense of self-esteem and worth: Personal inadequacy (physical, emotional and sexual)—“I’ll

Porn addiction recovery is not a single event, but a series of successes—one amazing learning experience at-a-time! You can succeed!